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 No.17742[Reply]

Honestly I can't believe anyone still posts here. 8kun turned out to be a massive disappointment, Knightly disappeared, and our webring board got deleted for inactivity while I was gone. Yet here we are, still refusing to waggle our willies. It's impressive.

Anyway, don't fap ya cunts. Feel free to use this thread for your 2021 nofap year journal. This time for sure, bros, we're all gonna make it.

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 No.17841

>>17838

Kek. You're like an autistic janny then.

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 No.2[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

Welcome to /nofap/

This board is for the discussion of nofap, noporn, and the societal implications of fapping and porn.

RULES AND FAQ

http://jthnx5wyvjvzsxtu.onion/nofap/rules.html

>1. Stay on topic. The topic is pretty loosely defined here so use some common sense.

>2. Don't post porn. NSFW images will be deleted. Posting NSFW material as a shitty troll attempt will result in a comically long ban. This board is SFW, so keep it that way.

>3. Non-/nofap/pers are welcome to come and question the premise of nofap and to argue against nofap. That said, shitposts, flames, bait, spam, and trolls are not allowed and such threads will be locked or deleted.

Just those three.

If anyone needs to get a hold of me try my e-mail at plaguedoctor@memeware.net.

And because I don't want to clutter the board with excess stickies:

ITT: dump /nofap/ infographs, videos, links, banners and other such things

/nofap/ bunker is at http://anon.cafe/nofap/ , the board will be here if 8kun goes down again.

If you're having trouble getting the 24 hour captcha to load, try going directly to http://jthnx5wyvjvzsxtu.onion/dnsbls_bypass.php

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 No.17777

>>15

These kikes are fucking everywhere holy shit you virus nobody likes you

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 No.17834[Reply]

I'm on a 546 day streak right now. 546 days is almost 1 year and 6 months. I reached this streak by following the process below.

Chant the Hare Krishna mahamantra daily. On some days I chant it for only half an hour but on some days I go up to 2 hours. But I make it a point to chant it for at least 10 minutes daily and on most days I reach half an hour. The Hare Krishna mahamantra is -

Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare, Hare Rama Hare Rama Rama Rama Hare Hare

I follow these 4 regulative principles while chanting -

1. No meat eating - hard to follow in western countries but if you must eat meat, do not eat beef at any cost. Eat other kinds of meat. Goat is the least harmful kind of meat so try to make do with that. Again, the preferred way is to avoid all kinds of meat and eggs altogether. That's the regulative principle.

EDIT : Why no meat eating? Not only is it most sinful to kill another living entity for the pleasure of the tongue (Bhagavada Gita), meat also increases the lust and sexual desire in the body and the mind. So one is bound to relapse if they indulge in meat eating.

2. No intoxicants - No drugs, no cigarettes, no tea, no coffee, no chocolate, no alcohol, no substances of any kind.

3. No gambling. Try to walk on the path of truth. No need to lie unecessarily. Lying is a sinful activity which puts a spiritual burden upon us and makes us heavier.

4. No illicit sex (no PMO - porn, masturbation, orgasm, no adult activities with women, no sexual intercourse).

EDIT : Brahmacharya means pure celibacy. That requires total avoidance of all sexual activities. However if one is married there is a slight allowance. One can engage in sexual intercourse but only for the purpose of producing a child. Not for wanton enjoyment. Once they have as many children as they desired they have to stop indulging in sex life.

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 No.17835

lmfao you incels are truly pathetic

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 No.17836

>>17835

ok coomer

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 No.17837

>>17836

If you think your "mahamantra" bullshit is anything but a comedy, you're retarded.

Imagine thinking "spiritual vibation" isn't just a way to scam soccer moms, potheads and retarded poos.

You really should kill yourself. You're a special kind of retard.

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 No.17847

How do I get in touch with you, if I want to do a voice call? Is there a group that you are on in Telegram, where I can find you?

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 No.17829[Reply]

How does one keep from getting aroused by mundane things like tile patterns, doorknobs and the state of Ohio? If you find those things titillating, they will be very hard to avoid, no matter how committed you are.

For example, I get turned on by the thought of women fainting. I used to collect images and videos of it happening, even though I never had a normal porn collection.

Now days I have my habit mostly under control, but I still get the urge to fap whenever I find a reference to a woman fainting. This doesn't happen often, but when it does I'm turned on right away, especially if it was unexpected.

How do I deal with this fetish? Is there a way to "un-kink" myself? Do I just have to live with it as best I can?

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 No.17846

>>17829

>tile patterns, doorknobs and the state of Ohio

how

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 No.40[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

So, Anons, what's your weakness?

What one thing, when you see it, almost always breaks away at your resolve?

Think about it, post it, and test your resolve by not breaking the /nofap/.
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 No.12595

Seeing a guy get himself off, dirty talk.

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 No.12643

>momdom

>abdl

>ageplay/ageregression

>hypno fetish

I am going 1 month nofap so far, and I'm starting to gain control over my life slowly, but hearing references to silly childish games, walking by baby stores or if someone trears me like a child (I look way younger than I really am and I feel it triggers that reaction on some people) it makes me feel kind of warm-fuzzy inside which instantly starts triggering arousal within me, it very shitty because all the relationships I've had so far have only cemented this behavior so far, the women who approached me (I have never approached a female before) have a maternal instinct which I lustfully crave, the feeling of letting go and slight helplessness of someone else taking the reigns is intoxicating but in the moments of clarity I realize this is just plain wrong and I feel the desperate need to stop thats mainly why I stopped in the first place, I want to be normal, I want to man up and leave this immature life behind me, I want to get better.

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 No.12655

>>274

I feel your pain

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 No.12687

>>2515

>>2555

It sounds like succubi to me. Sometimes they are just coming in dreams in appearence you like. They are taking your energy and pushing you to sin. Something simmiliar happened to me about a year ago. I red on some website, that is important to cry out Jesus name loud and break all truces with evil forces in his name. It actually worked that's how I became a christian .

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 No.17840

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Usually, after the weeks pass by i get over confident, and i shave, when i shave my balls and dick, i often think women will find me more attractive and i get aroused. Maybe i should just remain a hairy fucker

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 No.17595[Reply]

Feels like I'm in pure hell. I'm suffering in fake pleasure. I've sank so low.

My self esteem was already low and because of constant fails, it went even lower.

And I fetishized it all. It all starts with some femdom and now I'm looking out for newest futa on male crap.

I'm disgusted with myself. Everything is shit and loathsome. I hate myself even writing this because it's all just useless blackpilling whining into the void.

I used to write a diary but the amount of failed promises there made it too embarassing and pointless to continue. Oh, the countless "This is it", "Now, I'll be clean for good", etc.

I even became somewhat religious because of this all but I can't help but think that it's over for me, I'm going to hell for sure because of how much I sinned and continue to sin daily. I ask God to give me strength to defeat this addiction but I don't know. Nothing's working out lately.

Starting to seriously consider ending it all anons.

I don't know how to get myself out of this hole, never felt so low in my life.

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 No.17657

>>17595 I used to be pretty heavily addicted to degenerate femdom fetish filth as well. Start by seriously realizing what is right and meant to be. "Alt-Right" AKA (peace and harmony) views and morals is my concrete foundation that has given me the insight and power to free me from this cucked degeneracy that has been spawned to destroy men. And believe me, many improvements take place and your brain rewires back to normalcy, you will view women the way nature intended. The fake illusion of the so called femdom fetish that your brain has been hijacked by via unnatural hyperstimulation and modern degeneracy will disappear over time, and will start loving to fuck tight PUSSY! It gets SO much better, DO NOT give up, our European ancestors fought hard for what's right. You can do it too.

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 No.17825

easypeasymethod(dot)org

You sound desperate. I was there. Take this, friend

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 No.17828

I am in the same situation you are in right now almost exactly and I want you to know that simply by you posting this, I can see its not just me, which has helped me a lot and given me more strength to fight these demons. God bless you anon.

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 No.17831

>>17595

kys OP. you're a faggot

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 No.17839

>>17595

Hey anon. Long post coming through, and forgive me for any inconsistencies or bad structure in-general, my capacity for meaningful conversation has been decreasing greatly in the past few months, along with my intellectual ability.

Complete abstinence from porn and masturbation is the only way for both your suffering wrong doings and lack of masculinity.

I recommend checking out John Butler (not the musician) on YouTube, specifically his video "Naturally" I watched in a very low state. It was a depressing night, I don't remember exactly what it was, these past few months I have had downs, that night I had suicidal thoughts. I watched that video, in the morning I had a major anticipation for something in my life, a sort of interview, I needed to be very calm. I meditated throughout the whole night due to insomnia, probably slept about 1 hour, I have never experienced something as bad before. But in my mediation I watched as hours passed. I wonder if I went into REM sleep. I was sitting down so I couldn't have fallen asleep, but the time passed as if I was sleeping, and although that night I couldn't achieve true peace and calm of mediation and prayer, it was good looking back at it, with no choice I got up at 5, barely sleeping but feeling fairly rested. Now this was about after a week of not seeing sunlight, I don't remember how exactly, 1 year back I sunbathed regularly and here I was not getting any sun for several days. And so, in the morning I decided to get some morning UV-A to help my fucked up Circadian Rhythm and for proper Dopaminergic Cycling. The interview was at 12 I think. Anon, I have never seen something so beautiful. It was the type of weather after a few days of rain and it being a clear sky. The air was clear, there was some wind, the sun powerful where I live but it was cold. Anon, I felt at peace. I knew at that moment depression distorts one's worldview. The true world is not what your mind encapsulates. The next day I needed to walk for school for the first time after a long time do not going due to Corona and mental fuckage, the whether was as beautiful. I almost cry thinking about that sky, the general feel. I live in a fairly rural area. I took of my shirt and walked around, took off my shoes and put my fePost too long. Click here to view the full text.

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 No.17761[Reply]

Hi guys, I just wanted to lay down some of the things that can happen to you when you're not serious about it and what happens when you've been consuming porn for years.

That being said, your judgement on my actions would justified and if you people deem me a degnerate, I understand.

When I was a kid, I got molested by my uncle, and throughout the years, that memory was blocked out, a memory so painful and traumatazing that it left me doing things that I would never have imagined.

My porn consumption started out when I was very young, at the age of 11-12, it started out just finding some flash games and those new grounds meet n' fuck game if you remember.

But as the years went on, it got worse, fetishes got more absurd and counter to my nature and it got to the point where my number fetish was shemale and gay porn.

I would go on cam sites and talk to old men who fetishized teenage boys and have chatted with them on cam when I was underage.

Granted this addiction was a great source of shame and excitement, the more I did it, the more I though about meeting some of these men, not because I was attracted to them but because I wanted to feel something besides the shame and focus on the excitement.

I never did meet those people though, thank god. But a couple of years later I found myself in gay chats chatting with the same teenage boys that I was, I told myself well since I did it, it's not that big of a deal.

And then I started chatting with this gay guy and he incited me to download Grindr, and then that was just the start of the end. I met up with men near my area, and after each encounter, I felt more sick to my stomach, but the porn was always there, inciting me to do something more… always something more.

Then my infatuation with trannies just got worse, I started hiring trans escorts to humiliate me and degrade me, because as I saw myself I was a lost case, not deserving to be happy or just be straight.

Fucking years went on, now I'm 25 and every of my sexual partners have been men, even though, everytime that I did this, I just asked myself what is wrong with me, I don't even like doing this

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 No.17798

>>17784

if you read the bible it clearly states that god will punish all the wicked. telling sob stories wont get you redemption. killing pedos who pimp out little girls might

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 No.17812

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 No.17823

>>17798

Sorry, but which part of the Bible are you referring to? I think punishment can be meted by Jesus, because He can see rue in your soul and/heart and forgive you. The wicked get punished only if they don't feel remorse for their actions.

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 No.17824

OP, your post has value if you don't repeat your past actions. If you do that, then your regret becomes hollow and you will probably forget yourself in the process.

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 No.17830

>>17823

You'll never get forgiven because you're a kikejew faggot.

"If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn't do it, it is sin for them."

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 No.17827[Reply]

Every night for the past 3 days I've been having wet dreams.

I don't understand why I'm having them though, I've managed to reach three weeks without fapping before and I had no wet dreams.

Why am I having them and how do I stop them?

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 No.17826[Reply]

Hey there, /nofap/

We're in the process of organizing a new edition of The Infinity Cup or /icup/ for short, a virtual soccer tournament pitching various boards and imageboards against each other, and we're trying to find out if you guys wanted to reserve a spot in the final tournament. For an example of what the tournament looks like, refer to http://infinitycup.shoutwiki.com/wiki/Infinity_Cup_6

If you are interested, since your team has never played in previous iterations, we don't have either your roster, your kits or logos, so the only thing we ask of you if you want to join is the following:

1) Create a roster of 16 to 23 players, which can be named as you see fit;

2) Create a suitable logo for your board, it can be in any shape you want;

3) Create at the very least one kit for your team, which can be done by using this flat one as a template; There's no maximum on allowed kits, but the norm is to give a Home kit, an Away kit and a Goalkeeper kit at minimum;

4) Making sure your team has the correct number of medals (1 Gold, 1 Silver and 2 Bronze), which you can see from the wiki page;

5) Making a thread over at http://anon.cafe/icup/ with your team's pledge, you just need to make a new thread telling us that your board wants in on the cup.

Optionally) Assign player cards, roles and special strategies to your players, which can be referenced from the following wiki articles:

http://infinitycup.shoutwiki.com/wiki/Player_Cards

http://infinitycup.shoutwiki.com/wiki/Rules

http://infinitycup.shoutwiki.com/wiki/Team_Strategies

Optionally2) Change roster names and/or give us 3D models to use for your team, or new kits or whatever contribution Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

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 No.17822[Reply]

I've tried and failed many times in the past, but this time something is different. I'm currently about 3 weeks in and I didn't even plan on doing nofap, I only decided to stick to it about 7 days in once I realized what I can do.

Before I had a problem that I believe plagues 99.9% of nofapers and 100% of the failed nofapers. It is the build up of the sexual energy in the lower chakras which can only result in inevitable explosion, unless you learn how to pull it through the spine to the upper chakras. Now I'm using the term "chakras" here because it's the most popular term for energetic centers of human body, I'm not well versed in teachings that the term comes from. By opening the 2 lowermost chakras, you can instantly transmutate the sexual urge into power which can be used in any of the upper chakras depending on how far you pull it. I used to get very strong sexual urges several times a day and by focusing awareness to the pathway between root and sacral and then pulling it further up the spine to solar I learned that I can make the sexual urge die within 10 seconds after which I feel energized which can on a downside make it hard to sleep unless you learn how to direct it through the crown. With time, this process started happening by itself.

The problem is that attaining such ability is not easy and I really can't offer a concrete guide, only some guidelines. Meditate. A lot. Reach the state of perfect stillness. This is where the magic happens. Learn to control your awareness. Don't force it, the key is in the opposite - learn to let go. Awareness is like a magnet for energy and by focusing it on root you hook the energy which you can then drive wherever you want. But again and I can't stress this enough - don't force it. Working with awareness is opposite from working with muscles. You don't make it work, you let it work. I'd compare it to playing with a shy cat.

Also check out this clip: I know you'll find it cringe but it actually contains very useful advice, especially the part about water chakra which is a major concern for all of you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cH-HT9WCtiQ

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 No.17800[Reply]

It's 25/01/21, I'm aiming initially for three months without watching porn, jerking off or ejaculating, but time and effort will tell if I get further from there.

I want to purify my soul, I want to meditate and exercise, breath clean air and heal myself. I've been poisoned for a long time now.

Fuck you porn industry, fuck you demons on earth.

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 No.17810

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So, it's the eleventh day since I've started, it's Wednesday 03/02 and I've been talking to some girl last days and we're gonna have sex next Saturday.. so yes, this shit actually works.

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 No.17811

OP here, day number 13: some pal wants me to bang her wife while he's watching. This is beyond surreal, stuff like this never ever happened to me, I don't know if it's mere coincidence or this sexual desire I've been keeping and also the meditation I've been doing had some sort of manifestation as a result or some shit that these kind of things are happening to me.

Feelin' blessed, Saturday might lose some cum but not because of my own hands so it's still counting

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 No.17816

12/02

Lost :(

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 No.17817

Day 0: It's curious how everytime I'm searching how to better myself I end up here and failing. Life keeps hitting whenever I try to climb up.

Maybe because it's the way to go.

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 No.17821

>>17817

I'm OP. Don't let yourself down bro, I've lost yet I started again (second day), c'mon, nothing can stop us.

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 No.17819[Reply]

How can I control my genital disturbing me to do it? Anyone here had this problem too?

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 No.17815[Reply]

Under the 12 step model, resentments fuel relapses. Steps 4 and 10 are about removing or at least processing those resentments, which increase your faith in a higher power. Maybe you don't have a lot of amends (steps 8 and 9) to make over fapping, but maybe you owe amends to yourself for wasted time and potential. Once you start praying and meditating (step 11) you may find yourself in a position to start helping others nofap (step 12).

Perhaps you are not entirely powerless to avoid fapping, but if you find yourself relapsing often, you can probably admit powerlessness over the urge to keep going once you cave in the first time, and some degree of powerless over the stimuli that you encounter. If you have any faith in a power greater than yourself, you can increase your connection to that higher power by turning your will over to it (which can be as simple as the spirituality of two people helping each other resist the urge to fap).

I know many people don't like the 12 steps because of the word "God" but in the 12 steps any conception of God will do and it seems like there are at least some believers in here. Sex Addicts Anonymous is a 12 step fellowship for compulsive fappers and other sex addicts.

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 No.17779[Reply]

What are some foods that can procure manhood? What is the best way to attain a JoJo physique? How do I make it past the first big urge? etc.

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 No.17783

>>17779

Zinc. Take Zinc supplements and eat food high in zinc. The best way to make it past the big urges is just to tough it out, I'd play vidya or just watch TV to get my mind off those huge urges in the first tow weeks. Just remember after a month the urges become much more manageable, once you've got through those urges then you can work on yourself

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 No.17791

zinc

magnesium

D3 & K2

chamomile, tumeric, and green tea

(decaf)

eat plenty of ANIMAL fats & proteins

all plant forms of it will decrease your

testosterone

foods:

fish (preferably salmon)

eggs

some fiber

red meat, if you're willing to wash a cast

iron skillet every day

the main issue is learning how to keep going after you fail, and improving obvious things like sleeping habits (which

will get you for sure)

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 No.17814

Ashwagandha supposedly stimulates androgenicity way upstream on the pituitary level. Ginger root does something but no idea how.

>>17791

doesn't chamomile have phito estrogens? Maybe just take an apigenin supplement.

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I understand how love is a concept from the XVIII century defining some hormonal and chemical reactions.

Quote from another thread: "Sex is meant for procreation only. no matter how bad the urge is, you will know in your heart that this is true."

I don't want love, society told me I should want it, and my hormones helped associate their pull with the rationale behind love. So, all my dreams are gone. I have been daydreaming about a 3d waifu, since I was 5. I've been dreaming of a perfect companionship for 17 years and masturbating to porn for more than a decade. I have to abandon everything now, because they're coming from my biology, and by listening to it, I'll suffer when things like the Coolidge effect, Pareto principle, dating up and the polygamous nature of sexuality are finally manifesting in my life or my partner's life. I wanted love to be like in the movies, but that's sadly not reality. Reality is the biggest letdown, how can anyone say that reality is better than fantasy? I prefer dreaming of falling in love than actually falling in love and later falling out of it or getting my heart broken. I don't know what to do guys, real love is not an option for me, fantasies are also bad for me, what do? How can I dream of my 3d waifu when I know all I like about her are traits that would make her a good mother, traits picked by my subconscious. I find women attractive because of my subconscious, else I would just daydream about an idea, a cloud of personality that can actually be a man, a dog or any body. I am built like this it's not something I inherently want. So how can I dream about our lives together if they're just a strategy of my genes to get me to reproduce, and not real, pure, uninterested love? I just follow my body's agenda, I'm not actually choosing someone in the real life to love.

Inb4 I already said I don't want to play the real life romance lottery and look for someone to love like my waifu. It's realistically not possible, marriage is there as a contract with the government to bind people together when young age and hormones no longer do. It's unrealistic to think everyone will find their soulmate. I'm not willing to get hurt if I fail. I can only say "I love you" so many times to people, before it loses its meaning. I've already said it, and I picked the wrong person, or did the wrong thPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

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>>12798

If you resist the urge to take a peak your energy will build up until you use it for something positive. Never LOOK and you'll probably be OK. That being said if you do mess up and look at something you just got to hold on and don't let yourself keep taking peaks you just got to rewire your brain not to demand visual stimulation and after a while you'll be out of the habit.

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 No.13197

>>12778

Real love does exist and is actually the natural ideal, but it requires that both people practice chastity and self control, something that's rare in the modern world

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 No.13202

>>13197

I'm not going to drag myself through the dirt of heartbreak and cheating bitches just to find it. It's not worth it for me. I just want to stop having a reaction to porn. As of now, I'm at least immune to women.

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 No.17813

I think visiting http://speeddaters.net/gaystryst-review.html will be the most correct solution for you now. There you can find something new and unique, which will be only yours and no one else's. I am sure that you will be satisfied that you have trusted me today, now.

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 No.17832

>>12778

Love is friendship on fire + sexual attraction.

You're an incel OP, so it figures you write a TLDR on it because you're a faggot.

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